[second - hand - act]

All Meow, No Scratch

on Ao3

Title: All Meow, No Scratch
Rating: NC-17 (asphyxiation, hair pulling, sub/dom, bloodplay, dirty talk)
Pairing: Dave Strider/Karkat Vantas
Prompt:

Notes: I apologize for the absolute horrible roughness of this; this is the first time I’ve written in fuck-knows-how-long.

And no, unfortunately, this isn’t a return-from-hiatus; I just happened to have an evening of internet access.

Enjoy.

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Hiatus?

My followers may have noticed that I haven’t been around.
This is due to a lack of internet, and a not-so-functional computer.
Unfortunately, I will be without internet - and thus on forced hiatus - at least until I move to Atlanta, which will occur sometime over the summer (hopefully sooner rather than later).
I apologize for not giving you things to read in the meantime. I love you all.

Anonymous asked: Why bother hooking up for sex with a stranger who won't come off anon? Is there a point?

‘for fun’ is the best reason anyone can have to do anything.

Anonymous asked: Oh! I'm the first anon, the one with the egregiously long list of things I wish I could get done to me. I just wanted to say something as part 2 of my confession I guess. Truth be told, I don't know if I'm a 'true' masochist. I don't know my limits as they've yet to be tested. I figure that's what I leave to my Dom(me) to figure out. To toe the line and then shatter it. Shatter me, I suppose. Then piece me back together just to break me down again. But what do I know?

That’s okay, a lot of people don’t know! You have to find the right Dom, which is a trial in and of itself. It has to be someone you can trust to push your limits, and not every Dom can be trusted to do that. There are so many who just want to shatter you, who don’t want to go through the effort of putting you back together.

It’s one of the things that frustrates me about the BDSM community on a whole. Education is limited, and experience is rare. I’m very, very lucky.

I’d have no problem helping you find your limits, if you wanted. <3

Anonymous asked: You're passionate about BDSM right? I know you are. I hang onto your every word because I can feel it. How do I explain BDSM to someone I know? They insist that they /understand/ and /know/ but everything they do is so shallow. I'm not eloquent enough to explain to them how intricate the relationship is, how much of yourself you devote into it. When I tried to tell him, he shrugged me off and said 'I've /cut/ her, i'm more into it than you'll ever be'. Help me.

Oh, goodness.

The first step to explaining BDSM, I’ve always found, is explaining that it’s about respect more than it is about anything else. The core rules are so very important: Safe, Consensual, Sane. Just putting your hand on a whip (or a razor, or a collar) does not a Dom make. Just because you’re capable of causing pain doesn’t mean you’re good at what you do.

If it’s ever all about you and not about your partner, you’re failing at BDSM. A Dom’s entire focus should be their sub’s well-being - in fact, I’ve found that Domming is harder than subbing, because when you’re a sub, you should be able to trust completely in your Dom; and when you Dom, you have to be able to maintain control, and be fully aware of your sub while indulging yourself. It requires a level of trust that you don’t find in other relationships. 

I don’t know how to help you explain that, though! Have you talked to his ‘sub’? Does she know the difference between what he’s doing and what an actual Dom would do? There are so many subs in the community who get completely ruined by inexperienced and over-narcissistic Doms. =/ It makes me really sad.

Anonymous asked: Will you tell me what you'll do to me for making you want me like this?

Not publicly, because that’s what you want, and I don’t give rambunctious pets what they want unless it serves my desires.

NOTE: Make no mistake, I’m definitely describing in great detail all I’ve got planned for you - to my writing group. Maybe you can get one of them to tell you. <3

Anonymous asked: A lot of masochists say they're masochists, but when faced with all they think they can handle, they back down. I wonder why that is...

I wonder if you have any idea how hard it is to find a true masochist. I wonder if you know how badly I want that.

I would give all manner of things for the sake of having someone on their knees in front of me. Crying for me. Bleeding for me.

Oh.

My.

God.